There's something i just learned about forgiveness that i've never heard before. It is actually macam tips la. It helps you to forgive more easy and move on. My awesome mentor yang ajar.
Kenapa kita kena maafkan orang?
Sebab kita nak Rasulullah SAW gembira. Macam mana tu?
Sebab Rasulullah SAW mengharapkan semua umat baginda dapat masuk ke syurga. Kalau lah kerana kita tak memaafkan dosa orang tu, dan orang tu masuk ke neraka sebab tu, kita adalah punca dia masuk neraka. Bila dia masuk neraka, Rasulullah SAW akan bersedih. Sebab orang tu juga adalah umatnya. Maka, dalam usaha kita nak gembirakan hati Rasulullah SAW, dan taknak jadi penyebab Baginda berduka cita, maka, the least that we can do is memaafkan kesalahan orang pada kita. Moga2 dia takkan masuk ke neraka disebabkan dosa dia pada kita.
Aku tak pernah fikir macam ni before. Holding a grudge is what i do best! I know it's killing me from inside. But i don't know why did i hang on to it. I used to always focus on apa yang tak best. Apa yang sakit hati. Kept on thinking about it. Lipat gandakan rasa tak best tu. Then i blame other people. I ended up being miserable. It didn't do me any good pun. What a waste of time je.
The power of focus. When things feel like they're not working out, Focus on what's working right. Focus on what makes you feel good, not what brings you down.
Learning and keep on learning. Cause i'm not perfect. But trying to be as perfect as possible. :)
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